1 John 4:9–10

Love is not that we loved, but that God sent his Son

9By this the love of God was revealed among us: that God has sent his only Son into the world so that we might live through him.

10In this is love, not that we have loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as the expiation for our sins.

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7Beloved, let us love one another, because love is from God, and everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God.

8Whoever does not love has not known God, because God is love.

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11Beloved, if God loved us in this way, we also ought to love one another.

12No one has ever seen God; if we love one another, God remains in us, and his love has been brought to completion in us.

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