Pain and hope

Verses about loneliness

God is not indifferent to those who are alone: the Bible speaks honestly about it, and keeps them company.

30 passages from 16 books

Read it in 7 daysOne passage a day from this topic, with a question to think it over.

1When you feel alone

2God does not leave you

3The abandoned in the Bible

  • Hagar and her son, sent away into the wilderness, are heard by God

    Abraham rose early in the morning, took bread and a skin of water, and gave them to Hagar, putting them on her shoulder, and also the child, and sent her away. She went and wandered in the wilderness of Beersheba. When the water in the skin was used up, she threw the child under one of the bushes. Then she went and sat down opposite him a good way off, about a bowshot away, for she said, “Let me not see the death of the child.” And she sat opposite him, lifted up her voice, and wept. Elohim heard the voice of the boy, and the angel of Elohim called to Hagar from the heavens and said to her, “What troubles you, Hagar? Do not be afraid, for Elohim has heard the voice of the boy where he is. Get up, lift up the boy, and hold him with your hand, for I will make him a great nation.” Then Elohim opened her eyes, and she saw a well of water. She went and filled the skin with water and gave a drink to the boy.

    Genesis 21:14–19
  • Elijah flees and asks to die; he feels he is the only one left

    He saw this, and got up and went for his life; and he came to Beersheba, which belongs to Judah, and left his young man there. But he himself went into the wilderness a day’s journey, and came and sat down under a broom tree; and he asked for himself to die, and said, “Enough now, YHWH! Take my life, for I am not better than my fathers.” He lay down and slept under a broom tree; and there, an angel was touching him, and he said to him, “Get up, eat.” He looked, and there, at his head, was a cake baked on hot stones and a jug of water. He ate and drank, and lay down again. The angel of YHWH came back a second time and touched him and said, “Get up, eat, for the journey is too much for you.” He got up and ate and drank, and went in the strength of that food forty days and forty nights to the mountain of Elohim, Horeb. There he went into the cave and spent the night there. And the word of YHWH came to him, and he said to him, “What are you doing here, Elijah?” He said, “I have been very jealous for YHWH, Elohim Tsevaot, for the sons of Israel have abandoned your covenant, torn down your altars, and killed your prophets with the sword; and I am left, I alone, and they seek my life, to take it away.”

    1 Kings 19:3–10
  • Joseph is thrown into a cistern by his own brothers and sold

    When Joseph came to his brothers, they stripped Joseph of his robe, the long robe that was on him; and they took him and threw him into the cistern. The cistern was empty; there was no water in it. Then they sat down to eat bread; and they lifted their eyes and looked, and look, a caravan of Ishmaelites was coming from Gilead, with their camels carrying aromatic gum, balm, and ladanum, on their way to take it down to Egypt. Judah said to his brothers, “What profit is there if we kill our brother and cover up his blood? Come, let us sell him to the Ishmaelites, and let not our hand be on him, for he is our brother, our flesh.” And his brothers listened. Then Midianite men, traders, passed by; and they drew and lifted Joseph out of the cistern and sold Joseph to the Ishmaelites for twenty pieces of silver; and they brought Joseph to Egypt.

    Genesis 37:23–28
  • Jeremiah sinks in the mud of a cistern and Ebed-melech brings him out

    So they took Jeremiah and threw him into the cistern of Malchijah son of the king, which was in the court of the guard, and they let down Jeremiah with ropes. In the cistern there was no water, but only mud, and Jeremiah sank in the mud. And Ebed-melech the Cushite, a man, a court official, and he was in the house of the king, heard that they had put Jeremiah into the cistern —now the king was sitting in the gate of Benjamin— And Ebed-melech went out from the house of the king and spoke to the king, saying, “My lord the king, these men have done evil in all that they have done to Jeremiah the prophet, whom they have thrown into the cistern; and he will die where he is because of the famine, for there is no more bread in the city.” Then the king commanded Ebed-melech the Cushite, saying, “Take with you from here thirty men, and bring up Jeremiah the prophet from the cistern before he dies.” So Ebed-melech took the men with him and went into the house of the king, to a place under the treasury, and took from there old rags and worn-out clothes, and let them down to Jeremiah into the cistern with ropes. And Ebed-melech the Cushite said to Jeremiah, “Put, please, the old rags and the worn-out clothes under your armpits, beneath the ropes.” And Jeremiah did so. So they pulled Jeremiah with ropes and brought him up from the cistern; and Jeremiah stayed in the court of the guard.

    Jeremiah 38:6–13
  • Jesus cries out with a loud voice: “My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?”

    And about the ninth hour Jesus cried out with a loud voice, saying, “Eli, Eli, lema sabachthani?” that is, “My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?”

    Matthew 27:46
  • Everyone deserted Paul at his defense, but the Lord stood by him

    At my first defense no one stood by me, but all deserted me; may it not be counted against them. But the Lord stood by me and strengthened me, so that through me the proclamation might be fully carried out and all the nations might hear; and I was rescued from the mouth of the lion.

    2 Timothy 4:16–17
  • Jesus says they will leave him alone, and yet the Father is with him

    Look, an hour is coming, and has come, when you will be scattered, each to his own, and will leave me alone; and yet I am not alone, because the Father is with me.

    John 16:32

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